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By Sara Davidson. Whether you're 35 or 75, it's never too late to fall madly or gently and even sacredly in love.
Just ask actress Ellen Burstyn and a host of other women who found themselves in the heat of romance when they least expected it. For 25 years, Ellen Burstyn did not go out on a date. Why not? I find that hard to believe, I say. She enjoyed being with her son, Jefferson, her friends, and her animals. Every so often, she would look around and think, "Where are all the men? But this ease took her decades to attain. I think I built an invisible shield that no one could penetrate. On a Woman looking for her love, she asked a woman friend if she knew a man who might be suitable.
Shortly afterward, this same woman was approached by a Greek actor who had auditioned for Ellen at the Actors Studio when he was 25 and she was The Greek kid? But he was 48 now, attractive and a successful acting teacher. He sent her an e-mail, which she answered, guardedly. You do that differently than I do. It allows for a stress-free relationship.
Somebody else will grab him! As I get older, I hear more frequently about people who fall in love again with boyfriends from the past. She and Stephen were a couple for three years, parting when she was 17 and he was Forty-six years later, Stephen wrote to Marta saying that his wife of 43 years had died of cancer, he was coming to Los Angeles to rehearse with his chamber music trio, and could he take her out to lunch?
Her piano is in her bedroom, so after lunch, Stephen played a Beethoven sonata while she sat on the bed. In some ways it felt as if no time had passed, and in some ways I was with a stranger. Marta had left music, earned a PhD in psychology, and lived with different men, sometimes marrying them and sometimes not. Five months after their reunion, she and Stephen were engaged. Sally had run with the most popular girls and football players at University High in Los Angeles. He was a surfer, and also a banker, who had flown in from Hawaii.
In January of this year, Sally closed up her home in Palm Desert, California, and flew to Honolulu, carrying two suitcases. Gene was barefoot when he picked her up at the airport and placed a lei around her neck. Gene and his son Daniel surf foot waves and do long-distance swims between the islands.
They had surfboards on the walls, and a boat in the garage, along with mountains of boxes filled with junk, Sally says. The paint was peeling, the bathrooms were moldy, and cockroaches were on parade. A dead gecko in the closet? I feel such a bond because we went to school together, and we can really communicate. You know how very few men can communicate? This one tells you everything. They pray together daily and attend church meetings. Well, what is a soul mate? Please send me someone who will love me just for me, and I will love him for himself.
Verlean had been alone for 13 years, but she was always busy with her work for the board of education, her church, and her grandchildren.
But inbecause of budget cuts, she lost her job testing vision and hearing in special ed children. Then he started calling and taking her to the movies. I want a wife, not a girlfriend. I ask. The man knew me, and I knew who he was.
I liked his gentleness, and he treated me with high respect. Stop screaming about little things and just adapt. I escort him to the doctor and he escorts me. And we go to church together. I like to dress up, but at first he was casual. She had dated men but never felt she could be all she was or give herself completely to the relationship. Not long after drawing up the list, Donna went to a multifaith conference. They seemed a perfect match: They made each other laugh, they liked the same books and films, they both craved solitude, neither drank alcohol, and both are gluten intolerant.
It was perfect, except It was his intense spiritual devotion that made their union possible. She brought him to Jewish Renewal services, which he loved. For both of us, religion is a path to God, and our commitment to God goes beyond any organized structure. That defies credulity, for me.
Neither had been married or had children. What are the odds they could connect in their 40s and not have a single argument? Do they see this as failure and throw in the towel? I explored this and other questions about love after 50 in my book Leap! Joan and Gordon, who were 57 and 59 respectively, had to ask the question themselves: Why is this wedding different from all our other weddings? They seemed well matched. They decided that what would be different about a fourth wedding was them.
This time I will vow with my whole heart: 'I will walk the rest of the way with you. I will walk into the mystery with you. I know there will be difficult times, and I vow to see them as grist for the mill. They readied me for this. Marry, or not. Live together, or not. Have sex a lot or a little.
Peggy Hilliard, 80, met John Morse, 84, through an Internet dating service in They lived in different cities, and after a year, Peggy left her house in Oregon and moved in with John at a retirement village in Washington State. At 80 you have more freedom. You just have to relax and be creative. I take heart from these stories, even if some seem a bit mushy.
They offer evidence that love can come to people at all ages and stations. They inspire me to let go of my tendency to be pessimistic and think, "They're writing songs of love, but not for me. Donna Zerner had never been in love before, and the joy and sacredness at her commitzvah ceremony with David were so palpable, people couldn't stop smiling. Those who were single felt there was still a chance for them, and those who had a partner were inspired to strengthen their bond.
Donna and David set the bar high, vowing they would always see challenges between them as an opportunity to deepen their love and their relationship to God. When I heard them voice this, I thought, "That's the reason I want to be in a relationship again. Not for sex alone or even companionship, but for the opportunity to go deeper with another and draw closer to the light—especially at this age, when time seems to be speeding up. Not like 'Oh yeah, I'm gonna die,' but it's a possibility that's there all the time.
And once that happens, everything becomes more precious. When you're in love you feel so young, and at the same time, you're summing life up. So it's beautiful and rich, and you have to be aware that it's impermanent. He told her recently that he was driving home and a song on the radio threw him into a terrible dark place We know that life is short. Death is certain. And love is real. We're going to enjoy every moment of it.Woman looking for her love
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