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Depending on who you ask, there are anywhere between 10 and submissive men for every dominant woman out there. There are also people who are just really fucking bad at being submissive. I firmly believe that the people who say there are X submissive men for every dominant woman are lumping all of those groups together. Now, the distinctions can be fairly fine, as there are as many ways to submit as there are submissive people. Submissive people of any gender are absolutely entitled to ask for what they want, and to get their needs met in a relationship or leave it to look for a better fit.
You know what he did? He read the fucking stickies and posted an interesting question. When reading the stickies causes women to play-fight over you, the bar is pretty fucking low. Guys, the dickbags who post personal about how obedient they are in no-personal groups are the majority of your competition. If there really are submissive men for every dominant woman, where the fuck is my awesome geekboy harem? If awesome submissive men are really that common, there must be tons of them who are right for me. Surely she could just snap her fingers and a submissive man would appear in front of her, ready to do her bidding.
Should take about a day, maybe two, right?
Awesome submissive men are rare and precious. Awesome submissive men who are just right for a given dom are even rarer. Speaking of submissive male friends, my friend Kadri was nice enough to give me some stats on our local community. He tells me that in his experience there are only about twice as many exclusively submissive men as there are exclusively dominant women.
Another very interesting thing Kadri told me was that there are actually more women who top sometimes if not necessarily very often than there are men who bottom sometimes again, if not necessarily very often. Apparently the ratio of not-exclusively-submissive women to not-exclusively-dominant men is about This just in: being female and dominant does not actually make everything easy all the time!
Details at It makes me so sad that this probably is news to a Sub seeking dominant female of people. The female who seeks female domination is always left out of this kind of discussion. I am straight but love some female domination from time to time but find it very hard to find, Guys sem to find it ok,so what about ME LO,.
I want to write a want ad for a woman like you. Would you have any suggestions as what to say. I am well educated, nice looking, in excellent physical shape. I am just not quite sure how to state it. Well first of all, you write a personal ad hoping to attract people like her, not a want ad. You may find a submissive woman who likes being entertainment, but dominant women who will do that are few and far between read practically non existent, we do not exist to entertain you.
It seems that there is a dress code based on stereotypes. Pro-domme stereotypes? Stereotypes imposed from without. Being truly dominant must be a states of mind-rather than conforming to a stereotype. I agree I prefer seeing a women regular clothes, leather corsets, and the sort just scream dominatrix to me. I am not looking for a dominatrix if I was there are plenty of dungeons around I can pay someone to act out some fantasy.
I agree that the notion that a woman has it easier is absurd. I have talked to a few different women a Fetlife that say that it is hard for them to find true submissive men that want to serve them and have a real relationship because they get flooded with messages from men that just give them a list of fetishes they want the women to perform for them.
She can wear cotton pajamas for all I care. But I can see where some bottoms want or appreciate the visual references and symbology of authority, just as some tops want certain submissive visual cues. I crave to be your toy Mistress. I beg you please start my training to be your totally obedient slave as cruelly and viciously as you would desire. Please I beg you humiliate me. I am kneeling writing this nude and rockhard. I beg to wear your collar to feel my thigh branded marking my body as yours to abuse as you desire. You may not be able to get laid at the exact moment by the exact guy whenever you want, but, compared to guys, your sex life could be a buffet if you want it.
Guys have it x harder than women, period. It is not the smorgasbord dudes seem to assume it would be. Turns out guys have preferences in a partner, too. Turns out guys also sometimes have scheduling issues. Or talk a good game but are chickenshits when it comes down to actually meeting up.
I had about a five-year span once where I actively sought a FWB — just a reasonably cute guy who would come over on a regular basis and satisfy my needs. It was frustrating at the time. You girls keep saying stuff like buffet and smorgasbord. Feel free to get back in line after.
Go to a party. Put 5 single, average looking, heterosexual men in a room with 1 single average looking heterosexual female. Give them all a few drinks. Probably 5 out of 5. Now, do the opposite. Put 5 single, average looking heterosexual females in a room with 1 single, average looking male. Your entire post is spot-on. All of us feel that way when we start out, when we try something new, when we start playing with someone new, etc.
If you both want to, go for it! Seems like 2 adults could do that. There are dominant women and I have met a few but never had the type of relationship I wanted with one, long term. There are also dominant women who are just not dominant in the bedroom or in the certain way that submissive is looking for so all around it can be hard to find someone like if you are looking for a Zoroastrian in Minnesota you are going to have a difficult time.
But overall men are interested in sex first and women love first IMO. Submissive males are the most attractive guys out there! But seriously, I might have a lot of criticism on Trudeau, but I give him that he was able to get to PM without the classical austere stoic masculine attitude that you see in most politicians. In reality, everyone has submissive and dominant traits that come out at different times depending on the circumstances that call for it.
When blanket terms are thrown on complex subjects, misconceptions are born. No one can fully describe your personality, tastes, inner thoughts, feelings, creativity or intelligence levels by putting you into ONE category. Honestly, that would get boring, too. In order to have a power exchange, there has to be an imbalance, yes, but enough on one side to actually give back to the other side in order for the exchange to take place. I am a submissive man, and not a bottom. I thought the first phrase sounded too demanding!
I felt too greedy to even mention my desires, much less ask for them, or god forbid demand them. I was able to meet here very quickly and we now have a wonderful life together. Bottoms — yes, but not submissives. There is something foundmentally wrong with your post and analysis.
There is a massive pheonmea going on in the dating scene that if a woman doesnt find what shes looking for, then its mens fault. It is mens fault if she doesnt have a relationshipor if the relationship goes wrong. Your post, sadly, isnt an execption. I have had dated more than 15 different girls and had sex with them all. I can assure you that none of them, NONE of them had any dominate tendecies whatsoever.
Most of them were boring in bed, not kinky, and didnt see themselves playing power exchange. In simple words, they bring nothing new to the table. The only ones that do are usually the fat or old ones because they think they need to be kinky to make up the deficiencies they have. I have been to Fetlife, and i know the group you mentioned. Ive gone to many sites of kinks. Or maybe those lesbians who act like they are dom to just sell their sessions.
There is plently of men out there who want a real dominance relationship with a real dominate woman. I want something way deeper than sex.Sub seeking dominant female
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